Everson Luhanga
Weak libido, crime, gender-based violence, and countless other social issues are all up for debate among the men and women who are part of the discussion group, Alex’s Life Begins at 40.
The group, which was formed in February this year, has become popular among men and women in the township with ever-increasing numbers joining.
Group founder Jimmy Masingi said the group caters for a certain age group whose members often feel like they have been neglected by society.
“Many people who are 40 years and above feel like all they need is to concentrate on raising their families,” Jimmy told Scrolla.Africa.
“They, at times, give up on an exciting journey of life as the current generation takes over. We are saying to such people that life begins at 40 and let us celebrate life in style.
Jimmy said it is not a secret that men usually don’t like discussing their personal problems – erectile dysfunction, economic status and romantic relationships can be sensitive issues to talk about. But in the group meetings, many find that they feel free to speak to other men of their age without inhibition.
He said whenever they meet, the team selects a topic for the day, and they will then reach out to a relevant expert to give them professional advice on the subject.
“In our group, we are police officers, doctors, physiologists, leaders of community based organisations and other professionals,” he said.
He said women also talk about their relationships and if their partners are abusive to them, they get the professional help available on the day from experts and friends.
Jimmy said that before wrapping up the meeting, they drink, play music of their generation and dance.
“We play hits of our times and just be merry,” Jimmy said.
Jackie Chauke, a member, said the group members are able to teach each other about technology, which is a challenge for many people in their age group.
“We also speak about how we can bring discipline in our children’s lives. Yes, life begins at 40, and let us be happy!”
